Brave new world

Today I accepted Amory Jane’s Misletoe Challenge http://amoryjane.wordpress.com/.
She has set herself her the challenge of kissing five new, attractive people within the next ten days. I wish her the very best of luck. Off the back of this, she has set her readers the challenge of setting themselves a similarly Mistletoed challenge, and this I have done.
But before I divulge my own Mission Impossible, some background. And I shall keep this unusually brief.
My wife and I have very different sexual histories, quite different sexualities, and very different libidos. We have been together for about a decade, and for various reasons (which will doubtless be documented) about 8 years ago I gave up trying to initiate sex. We had a child about 3 years ago, and in the time that has passed since we have probably had sex no more than a dozen times.
For various reasons this last year has not been the best for me, and in an unusual fit of optimism I find myself looking to 2012 as an opportunity to turn around so many aspect of our lives. And as the last few days of 2011 pass us, out of the blue, we have had uncommonly good sex. Between one night of sex and a similar morning, my wife had three orgasms and I had one. Probably as many as we have shared in the last 12 months.
Both these fucks were initiated by my wife. Having unusually snuggled up on the sofa, before getting into bed She took off her nightshirt (invariably a sign that we will have sex), and as soon as she was under the duvet she unceremoniously grabbed my cock. It turned out to be the best sex we’ve had in a very very long time. We talked. Which is unusual. We had the lights on so we could see each other. We fucked in two positions. (Don’t get excited – it was Cowgirl and Missionary – nothing exotic, but unusual for us.)
But these brief moments of passion have given me hope. 2012 will now be a year when I try to breathe life back into our marriage. I am on a mission. We will have a sex life again.
And to that end, my mission for the next 10 days. Will be to initiate sex. It may sound like a trifle to most, but for us it will be a massive change, and not a little challenging. But I take Amory Jane’s challenge as an opportunity to get my wife and I fucking more than we ever have. More passionately than we ever have. And may be I shall find myself accidentally masturbating less.

4 Responses to “Brave new world”

  1. I wish you all the best these next few days. My sex life with my ex was similar (though I was you and my ex was your wife). I feel both your pain in that regard and your excitement at upcoming changes. xx

  2. Gillian Colbert Says:

    It’s never good to have your intimacy out of balance. I wish you the best.

    • Thanks. Some balance has been regained in just a few days as a result of just deciding to change it all. Inevitably I can see some pendulous motion ahead of us … and sadly I doubt it will be on one of those sex swings.

  3. It’s always great when a relationship turns in the right direction!

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