No matter

No matter how bad the day has been.
No matter how long the fight has been going on.
No matter how desperate you are.
No matter how little you think you are being heard.
No matter how desperate you feel the situation is.
Never say to your partner
“At the moment I think I just make you miserable”.
If you get a response
It will not be the one you want.

13 Responses to “No matter”

  1. Oh, I hear that all the time! *hugs* x

  2. Thanks for the hugs.
    (I hope I did not give the impression that I had expressed such doubts.)

  3. Gillian Colbert Says:

    Well, I read it from a much more darkly humorous bent. You get a hug just because I feel like it, though.


  4. confessionsofyourhusbandsmistress Says:

    Was it Jackson Browne who sang, “don’t ask me what I think of you, I might not give you the answer you want me to”? Yeah, one must be careful of what they hope to accomplish before opening ones mouth. I’ve been on the wrong end of that too many times.

  5. Ouch, You’re right though. Good advice. Too bad these epiphanies always come after the fact though.

  6. But, Accidental, sometimes it is true…

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