Sinful Sunday 358 – Self loathing

Self loathing takes many forms. For some it manifests as a dislike for their body, whilst others dislike their personality. I suspect I am not unlike most people, especially the noble band of sexual misfits that regularly submit exhibitionist images for Sinful Sunday: there are some aspects of my personality which I like, and some I would willingly change if I could figure out how; similarly there are parts of my body I like, and others that do not take a form that pleases me to look at.

Mostly I’m OK with my body – I’d be happy to see the love-handle go (though I’m not in bad shape for someone my age), I wouldn’t complain if I was a little more muscular (and I’m working on that at the gym), being a man obviously I’d not complain if I had a slightly larger dick (though it has never met with complaints so this is purely vanity) and I would love my balls to hang a little lower and swing more freely (and if only I could be more diligent wearing ball stretchers, I could doubtless achieve that).

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But, the one thing that I relentlessly loathe about my physical self is body hair.

I know some people like it, and I am by no measure an hirsuit mountain man, but I’d gladly be bald from the neck down. Which is why I get my genitals and arse waxed as often as time and finances permit.

Inevitably, there are occasions when neither time nor finance permit, and the last few months have been such. I will make time in the next few weeks, but meanwhile I find myself looking down in the shower and hating what I see.

40 Responses to “Sinful Sunday 358 – Self loathing”

  1. I am very much of a “you do YOU” mindset when it comes to matters of personal appearance. If having hair makes you happy – great. If being hairless is your thing – that’s great too. As I said: you do YOU.

    I understand the discontented statement you are making with this photo, but if I had read nothing of your discontent I would have assumed the opposite — namely, that this is a cropped shot of something about yourself that you like.

    *I* like it. It puts me in mind of grabbing my partner’s hair and tugging, which is one of my favorite tiny intimacies. ๐Ÿ™‚

  2. Nothing I or anyone else could say will change your view of yourself, so I wonโ€™t even try. However, I can tell you that for me, it actually took me several attempts to even read your post because I was completely mesmerized by the photo and didnโ€™t want to leave to read the words. So, while you see disappointment, I see delicious.

  3. On the Sinful Sunday page the little thumb nail of this image actually caught my eye because it was so sexy but then when I came to read I realised that it was actually a challenging image for you.

    As Mrs Fever says I truly believe you do you in this department and have what makes you happy and feel sexy but I will say that I find pubic hair on men very sexy. I do like a bit of trimming so that it is not completely out of control and I love shaved balls.

    As for sucking cock, well a bit of trimming is enough in my opinion


    • I’m not sure I’m challenged by the image. Or may be I am? I think it’s a decent enough photo, I hope it’s sexy or erotic or something, as that was the intention. And as mentioned, I think the hair actually adds to it as an image.
      It’s good to know there are those who do do themselves and like pubes, as there are relatively few men get waxed
      And don’t get me wrong, I’m not a fan of completely bald on either gender, but having walked past a mirror on my way to bed I did think I really need to get that sorted.. LOL!

  4. It’s all been said before. Press play, repeat… I actually find waxed male pubes a little disconcerting, because my past experience has largely been the opposite. But trimmed is fine… Feve said it first and I agree – you do you!

  5. You are so right, we all have our things that bother us. I go from shaved to not and back again with everything in between. Time and variables such as who I am seeing or not dictate my schedule as well.

    My thighs are a different story. The middle is always bald as a cue ball surrounded by dark coarse hair on the sides.. Drives me mad.

    Hope thing are back to the way you want them soon.

  6. Like others… I love the photograph.
    And like others, maybe more than others as a (former) trichillomaniac, I understand you wanting to feel waxed.
    Thank you for sharing.
    (Oh, I don’t mind pubic hair at all. As long as it’s clean and not too thick. I prefer less on the balls, but I’ll take what I get, just like men have to accept me as I am ๐Ÿ˜Š)

  7. I think this is a very sexy image – I like pubes on men – but not on me ๐Ÿ˜‰

  8. I think this is a sexy photo and love body hair, prefer the natural look xx

  9. I’d honestly like to say well done for sharing a photo of a part of yourself you don’t like so much – that’s an incredibly brave thing to do. It’s also a really sexy shot, though I hope you’re soon able to look down and be more comfortable with what you see. x

  10. You replied to another poster with the phrase, “Surely no one wants to suck a hairy cock?” I beg to differ! I actually hate when my partner shaves. It’s his body and he should do whatever makes him feel happy and comfortable, but I love his hair because it’s naturally a part of him. This is a sexy photo (I love the teasing way it’s cropped)!

  11. I can understand being unhappy with parts of your body but this is a sexy picture.

  12. Grab a razor. And, just think of all the fun you will have with the shaving cream when you finish.

  13. Krystal Minx Says:

    This is my favorite angle on a man’s body…thank you for sharing yours!

  14. AM, you are a very sexy man. Do what makes you happy and what makes you feel good especially about yourself but know there are plenty of us ladies that prefer taking a walk in the forest over the beach any day. ๐Ÿ˜‰

  15. I initially wanted to say noooo, donโ€™t get rid of such delicious furry beauty. But itโ€™s not about what I like, itโ€™s about what makes you feel happy and comfortable.

  16. It is sexy. I guess because body hair on a man translates into sexiness (in some instances). I like the shot. But as someone whoโ€™s body hair gets out of control in an instant, I understand wanting it gone ASAP.

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