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Stumbling and struggling

Posted in Fixing a broken marriage, Sex therapy with tags , , , on November 16, 2017 by Accidental Masturbator

Me: I did some reading on self-help and had another look at the links on the sex therapy clinic’s website.  I struggled to find much of use.

The best suggestion I found was Continue reading

Never talk to strangers 

Posted in Fixing a broken marriage, Sex therapy with tags , on November 14, 2017 by Accidental Masturbator

She has said before, at least once, probably more than once, that She doesn’t think She could talk to a stranger about sex.

How is it that She can accept an intimate medical examination, presumably performed by a stranger, but not an intimate psychological examination? Hell! Therapy isn’t even supposed to be an examination. It’s supposed to be assisted self help. But putting that aside …

One trained professional, who has seen it all before, whose focus is on what is clinically necessary, and who wouldn’t dream of discussing their day’s clients over a plate of nachos later in the pub, is staring up Her snatch.

Another trained professional, who has heard it all before, whose focus is on what is clinically necessary, and who wouldn’t dream of discussing their day’s clients over a plate of nachos later in the pub, is asking questions about Her relationship with Her snatch.

There’s obviously a difference. Right?

Talk about talk

Posted in Fixing a broken marriage, Sex therapy with tags , on November 13, 2017 by Accidental Masturbator

Several days on, having not Talked, She brough up the subject of Talking. Whether we need to talk about anything? To try self help before we Continue reading

Speak no evil

Posted in Fixing a broken marriage, Sex therapy with tags , , on November 12, 2017 by Accidental Masturbator

For as long as I can remember, I’ve rehearsed conversations in my head. In almost every case, conversations I’ve never had.
For as long as We have entertained the thought of seeing a counsellor (it’s nearly 6yrs since the first time) I have rehearsed answers in my head to questions they might never ask.

Those questions have been Continue reading

You have mail

Posted in Fixing a broken marriage, Sex therapy with tags , , on November 10, 2017 by Accidental Masturbator

Me: I saw your email.
It had said …

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Fight the good fight

Posted in Fixing a broken marriage, Sex therapy with tags , , , , , , , , on November 6, 2017 by Accidental Masturbator

There was no point in getting out of bed. It was Sunday: Friday night had gone from great to shit, and for pretty much the whole of Saturday I’d reserved my company exclusively for myself. Sulking, and licking my wounds. Again, the bed there was no point in getting out of was, by my own choice, the spare bed.

Some 5hrs later than I would usually rise (and, with the luxury of solitude, two orgasms later) I showered and went downstairs for breakfast. She joined me at the table.
Her: We should talk.
We did.
Awkwardly.

The conversation was Continue reading

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