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Keeping a secret

Posted in Sexual politics, Underwear with tags , , , , on June 19, 2017 by Accidental Masturbator

Received wisdom would have us believe size isn’t important. Obviously not all women agree – some like big, and possibly even more like small. But whatever your preference

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Imelda who?

Posted in Sexual politics, Underwear with tags , , , , on January 14, 2017 by Accidental Masturbator

The Xmas holidays are over, so I’m back to doing the school run, and it got me thinking: stereotypically, women, especially stereotypical school moms, are stereotypically renowned for getting off on shopping. Stereotypically, that is often for shoes.

Stereotypes exist for a reason – there’s frequently a degree of truth in them. I believe the received wisdom is, in the case of shoes, that it’s a form of self validation. Although it is generally unacceptable to say so, unless you’re careful, being a Continue reading

The women who invented the Brazilian wax

Posted in Male pubic waxing, Sexual politics with tags , , , , , , on January 12, 2017 by Accidental Masturbator

Originally published on 31 December 2016 on BBC News.
Written by By Vibeke Venema

Waxing pubic hair has become increasingly common, but how did the trend for the “Brazilian” wax begin?

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In an office toilet in London, young women discuss their grooming regimes. Jennifer, 19, waxes off all her pubic hair every month. “The pain is the worst thing I’ve ever been through, but I’m kind of used to it now,” she says.

“I prefer the underneath being gone,” says Lisa, 27. “Some people wax for the beach and other people wax for boys, and people who wax for Continue reading

Positive language

Posted in Fetishwear, Sexual politics with tags , , , , , on September 30, 2016 by Accidental Masturbator

I’m planning to customise a pair of latex gloves and make some minor alterations to my rubber catsuit. This took me to a fetish store to source the gloves. Whilst there I asked …
Me: Do you know where I can get Continue reading

The acceptible face of porn

Posted in Porn, Sexual politics with tags , , , , , on September 24, 2016 by Accidental Masturbator

Porn is harmless.
There. I’ve said it.
Not only that, there’s nothing wrong with full-on no-holes-barred hardcore porn.
Absolutely nothing.

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Object of desire

Posted in Porn, Sexual politics on September 19, 2016 by Accidental Masturbator

You may remember, Dear Reader, (if you were reading back when I still blogged regularly), that my Wife complained that She didn’t want to be objectified by lingerie.

At some point, I recall having mused on my own desire to be objectified. I’d love to be used for sex once more. It’s been far too long since someone who just needed a damn good fucking, and little more, wanted me to satisfy their need. To make use of my cock, my fingers, my tongue, to provide purely for their needs.

This morning, I swelled to this image, shared by ErotixxContinue reading

As Henry Ford said …

Posted in Fetishwear, Porn, Sexual politics with tags , , , , on November 27, 2015 by Accidental Masturbator

Every few months, I’ll have a few weeks when, for no particular reason, I won’t look at porn. (I know what you’re thinking, Dear Reader, but I do, honestly!) Fate has a way of balancing things out, and in the last couple of weeks I suspect rarely more than a couple of waking hours have passed without me enjoying porn of some form or another.

The criteria for my internet porn searches is varied and unpredictable and the last few days it has definitely focussed on Continue reading

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