Archive for Bondage

Music fetish

Posted in Fetishwear, Random stuff about sex with tags , , , , , , on July 1, 2019 by Accidental Masturbator

There are certain words that catch the ear. They’re like audio click bate. Free is the classic attention grabber, erection is another, but its folly to assume they’re words that necessarily mean what you want them to mean. They could refer to sugar free (who the fuck wants that?) or the erection of a foreclosure sign outside your favourite sex shop (which is undoubtedly worse). But there aren’t many circumstances in which the word

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The acceptible face of porn

Posted in Porn, Sexual politics with tags , , , , , on September 24, 2016 by Accidental Masturbator

Porn is harmless.
There. I’ve said it.
Not only that, there’s nothing wrong with full-on no-holes-barred hardcore porn.
Absolutely nothing.

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Reblog: Bondage for Beginners

Posted in Random stuff about sex with tags on February 11, 2016 by Accidental Masturbator

Bondage isn’t a huge thing for me in the way it is for some of you, Lovely Perverts. It’s fun, and I’ll certainly enjoy a blindfold, a rope, or handcuffs, or a riding crop given the opportunity and the right partner, but it’s not specifically My Kink. That said, if you haven’t tried it, you probably should. So here, courtesy of Kayla Lords, here’s a sponsored reblog on why and how.

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Statistical analysis

Posted in Random stuff about sex, Sexual politics with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , , on August 19, 2013 by Accidental Masturbator

Yeah, yeah, I know. Not the sexiest of titles, but bear with me. This post may well change the way you view your colleagues: you are probably working with more pervs than you realised.

When a friend recently pointed me at this video online, I thought I must add a link to it in my blog. Then I forgot about it. A few weeks later, and it’s obviously been doing the rounds as I came across it again on Kate Gilmour’s blog. So thanks to Kate, here it is …

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Fuck toy

Posted in Random stuff about sex with tags , , , , , , , , , on June 14, 2012 by Accidental Masturbator

As a lifestyle choice D/s is a complete mystery to me. As a sex game, in the confines of the bedroom (or where ever else you care to indulge in such practices), then it sometimes makes sense to me. In the past, especially with Geri (my number 6) I’ve enjoyed the likes of handcuffs, riding crops, ropes, blindfolds, and gags. But that’s all in my past now. But today…

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Women I’ve slept with, Part 5 : Long term comfort

Posted in Sex with other people with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , on May 21, 2012 by Accidental Masturbator

The odd little university club that was responsible for Marilyn and my respective paths crossing can also take credit for Alice and I ending up in bed together. Not only that, we spent something like 5 or 6 years together. By this stage I knew what I was doing when it came to sex (as much as most of us do in our early 20s) and although I wouldn’t describe it as the best sex I’ve ever had, it was certainly the easiest. We weren’t at it like rabbits, but we fucked regularly, and it was good sex. Perhaps this was because it was a long term relationship. Perhaps because we had both had enough partners to figure out how not to make the worst mistakes. Or perhaps because we actually liked fucking each other. I suspect it was a bit of all three.

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