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Of awkwardness and schedules

Posted in Fixing a broken marriage, Sex with my wife with tags , , , on April 5, 2017 by Accidental Masturbator

It had been a shit day. One of the worst in years. And at least in part, one of my own making. When I came home I hit the whisky. And I hit it hard.

She came home not long after. We didn’t argue. Too often, when I get drunk, my dissatisfaction at our marriage boils to the surface, but today my angst had a different target. We talked about it. There was no resolution – in the circumstance there is no possibility of a good resolution – but we were on the same side.

I’ve no idea how we got into the topic of sex. Half a Continue reading

For whom?

Posted in Fixing a broken marriage, The Red Torsolette with tags , , , on October 24, 2016 by Accidental Masturbator

It was an anniversary. Not a major anniversary, just one of those that comes around every year. We booked a babysitter and in anticipation of a rare night out at my Wife’s favorite restaurant, to be followed by a nightcap at a quiet bar nearby. 

Earlier in the day I’d asked if we were going to dress up for the evening. For me, that would be an ironed shirt and polished shoes instead of the usual T-shirt and trainers. She said if you want. So I did.

Earlier still, anticipating our sortie and the significance of the date, I wondered … nay fantasized … about the possibility that She might resurrect the infamous Red Lingerie. She was just wearing a Continue reading

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