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I’m not sure that helped

Posted in Fixing a broken marriage with tags , , , , , on May 21, 2019 by Accidental Masturbator

I’d spent 3 days away from home. Hiding. Licking my wounds. Being angry. Running through stuff in my head. Then running through it again. And again. And again. It wasn’t always the useful stuff my mind kept getting sucked back to. And I felt hurt. And sad. And lonely. And free. And lost. And wanting to be at home. But not wanting to go home.

I spent 3 days Continue reading

Thanks … but no thanks.

Posted in Fixing a broken marriage, Sex therapy with tags , , on December 26, 2018 by Accidental Masturbator

We resolved to try make-up sex a few years ago. It didn’t work. I think we fucked once and then retreated to opposite sides of the bed for weeks or months. I suspect that neither of Us is good enough at letting go of an argument and the hurt that goes with it, and there will always be some remaining bitterness that will stand in the way of remedial coitus.

However, what does nudge Us slightly together is a Continue reading

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