Archive for Fatigue

Marking time

Posted in Fixing a broken marriage with tags , , on April 15, 2017 by Accidental Masturbator

Back in … jeez I can’t remember when … was it 18 months ago, or maybe longer … there was some mention that we should schedule regular sex. We managed one fuck, maybe two at most, before that resolution failed completely. Now, so many months on, we have scheduled sex twice a week.

It’s Wednesday. We’re away on holiday. A self catering cottage. And as we prepared super, whilst our hosts’ kids entertained ours in the adjacent fields, I was tempted to ask Her if we were going to have sex later.
It felt Continue reading

Cruel intentons

Posted in Fixing a broken marriage, Sex on my own, Sex toys with tags , , , , on February 3, 2015 by Accidental Masturbator

It’s been a long week. A long three weeks actually. Working for up to 15hrs a day, an hour away from home. There has been no time for wanking. My balls are heavy, and every day for the last week at least I’ve woken with the hardest of erections. I’ve not cum for ages.

This last point is also tied up with the fact that We’ve not had sex since my Wife went back to work after Xmas. (We had a brief fumble, at Her instigation, but that went nowhere good pretty quickly, and She positively rejected a positive advance of mine, and later issued an unsolicited acknowledgement. But there has been nothing of any consequence, and none of the bumper pack of jonnies has seen action.)  She did postulate that a change of contraception might not be a panacea for Her libido, and that work related fatigue might play a significant role. Well that seems to have been pretty much confirmed. Oh well.

This morning, boner like steel, I reached for Continue reading

Too tired to play this game

Posted in Fixing a broken marriage, The Red Torsolette with tags , , , , on July 23, 2013 by Accidental Masturbator

NB If you’re keeping up with me, Dear Reader, you’ll know I’ve published a few post recently about the entirely unsatisfactory sex life My Wife and I have shared in recent months. Although they have been only appeared in the last few weeks, they were penned over the last 6 months. As you’ll know, they were resurrected as a build up to certain information, and that, at last, is contained herein.
This post has also been awaitig up loading for some time, but it does, nearly, bring us to date.

It was the night before a significant anniversary for my Wife and me: the date we moved in together. Earlier in the day there had been some mention of the date and the fact that my Wife had other commitments after work the next day – the actual day of our anniversary – so we wouldn’t really have an opportunity to celebrate. The discussion was indeterminate.

At this point I should bring you up to speed on a significant detail.
I’ve given up on sex.

Continue reading

%d bloggers like this: