Archive for Feminism


Posted in Fixing a broken marriage, Random stuff about sex, Sex therapy with tags , , , , , , , , on March 23, 2018 by Accidental Masturbator

I’d had a shit morning.
Life on the front line of being a grownup had seen fit to give me two good kicks before We left the house. The consequence, I could so easily have pulled out of going to our therapy session today. It even went through my mind to get there and then excuse myself, leaving my Wife to talk to Sue on Her own.
But I didn’t.
Perhaps that would have taken more spine than I could muster.

Sue: You’ve been away. How was that?
Her: It started well on the first day. The next couple were more difficult, without us talking a great deal.
Sue turned to me …
Sue: How do you feel it went.
Me: It was Continue reading

Handing in homework

Posted in Fixing a broken marriage, Sex therapy with tags , , , , , on January 16, 2018 by Accidental Masturbator

After Our first therapy session, we were given homework.

We had started out reasonably well with our mutual, daily expressions of affirmation, but they had largely petered out. With 3 weeks since Our first session, (our 2nd session was delayed by both Xmas and illness) for me at least, it had become hard work. Whilst my Wife had said some pleasing things, I’d run out of steam and whatever I came up with felt

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Porn and feminism

Posted in Porn, Sexual politics with tags , on September 16, 2015 by Accidental Masturbator

There’s a Surprising Link Between Watching Porn and Being a Feminist

By Jenny Kutner, September 10, 2015
Originally published on

Porn: Good for getting off, but not so good for feminism. At least, that’s long been the core critique of pornography among many feminists, who have suggested that the widespread availability of free online porn contributes to women’s oppression.New evidence suggests, however, that might not be the case. In fact, watching porn might actually be linked to more positive attitudes toward gender equality.

According to a recent article in the Continue reading

Can Porn Empower Women?

Posted in Porn, Sexual politics with tags , , on March 12, 2015 by Accidental Masturbator

Interested in porn?
OrĀ  intelligent debate?
Or feminism?
Or sex?
If you can answer yes to any of these, have a listen to Continue reading

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