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She can use me, but not use me.

Posted in Fixing a broken marriage with tags , , , , on July 31, 2019 by Accidental Masturbator

I had felt like She had used Me as a punch bag.
I had assumed She’d had a bad day and was taking it out on Me.
I was wrong, but even if I had been right …

It’s not OK for Her to use me as a punch bag.

There is, however, a paradox.

I am Continue reading

Why wouldn’t you?

Posted in Random stuff about sex with tags , , , on May 10, 2017 by Accidental Masturbator

A few weeks ago I woke from a dream about Her going down on me. Just as with Her real blow jobs, She was taking no more than my helmet in Her mouth, despite my gentle nudges forward.
Me: Could you suck more of my length, please?
I don’t think it was an unreasonable request. When giving head, a mouth is, in a sense, a surrogate pussy. I think it’s a fair assumption that most people, male and female, would be dissatisfied with only an inch of pussy penetration, and thus just getting your tip fellated is not going to be the best oral sex.
Her: I couldn’t get any more in my mouth.
Me: You could, really.
Her: Don’t Continue reading

I want to be …

Posted in Fixing a broken marriage, Sex with my wife with tags , , , on November 24, 2014 by Accidental Masturbator

I want to be your slave.
No. That’s not right.
I want to be Her slave.
Better, but still no.
I want to be Her sex slave.
Yes. Yes. Fuck yes. But no. There are too many connotations with the word slave I’m really not comfortable about.
I want to be Her servant.
To a degree, yes, but there’s still the implication of hierarchy and that’s not what I want at all.
I want to service Her.
Well that goes without saying. But maybe it’s getting closer to the point.

Some context to this thought cloud.

We had the Continue reading

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