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Tasks and surprises

Posted in Fixing a broken marriage, Kirsty with tags , , , on April 27, 2020 by Accidental Masturbator

With days of the week now largely an irrelevance for many of us, I think between us, my Wife and I have had 3 sessions with Kirsty, the counsellor, since It’s not all bad.

In brief …
We have continued to have tasks as homework:

Try to Continue reading

To write, or not to write …

Posted in Dr Ruth, Fixing a broken marriage, Kirsty with tags , , , , on March 5, 2020 by Accidental Masturbator

Months ago I passively decided I wasn’t going to write about my dysfunctional marriage any more. It wasn’t a firm decision, I just didn’t feel it was helping. And yet there has been, from time to time, a nagging sense of obligation for completeness. Having spend a few days in intensive counselling with Dr Ruth, a couple of other Skype  appointments took place – one with me individually, and two with both my Wife and me. And somehow I felt I should document them. But to what end? Venting? Post-processing? Narcacism? Certainly nothing that felt significantly meritorious.

That feeling is back.
Should I write?

The reason? We’re back at Continue reading

The Marx left by sex

Posted in Fixing a broken marriage with tags , , , , on March 30, 2017 by Accidental Masturbator

There was a fight.
A big fight.
One that stems from a familiar battle ground – the efficacy of patenting styles.
A fight that spiralled off into venting about respect, the stability of our marriage and who knows what other crap.
And in the middle of all the crap, a nugget.
She said how Continue reading

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