Archive for Menopause

I wish we hadn’t talked

Posted in Fixing a broken marriage, Sex therapy with tags , , , on February 2, 2018 by Accidental Masturbator

Three nights ago we had what started out as a civil conversation. A grown up conversation.

She said something about being a bit clumsy. I queried whether (in the context of what I had learned recently from listening to some of the BBC Radio 4 Woman’s Hour Menopause Week about menopausal women sometimes having issues with clumsiness) this was possibly related to Her menopause. It was not a symptom She was aware of, but She’d bear it in mind.

She didn’t think She was having any others, either. Specifically not mood swings, but Continue reading

Vicious cycles

Posted in Fixing a broken marriage, Random stuff about sex with tags , , , on October 30, 2017 by Accidental Masturbator

After yesterday’s innuendos and my Wife’s inclination to talk about SEX the day before, followed by our first (limited) snuggle on the sofa in front of a movie in months, and then even the briefest Her-hand-on-my-shoulder / my-hand-on-Her-thigh in bed, I couldn’t help but have some hope.

The clocks went back overnight. We stayed up later than usual just to

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