Archive for Reflection

No one said it would be easy

Posted in Dr Ruth, Fixing a broken marriage with tags , on August 2, 2019 by Accidental Masturbator

One post-Dr-Ruth conversation that was positive. The next two, far from it. We have a long way to go.


It turns out none of these are easy.

I’m going to Continue reading

I’m not sure that helped

Posted in Fixing a broken marriage with tags , , , , , on May 21, 2019 by Accidental Masturbator

I’d spent 3 days away from home. Hiding. Licking my wounds. Being angry. Running through stuff in my head. Then running through it again. And again. And again. It wasn’t always the useful stuff my mind kept getting sucked back to. And I felt hurt. And sad. And lonely. And free. And lost. And wanting to be at home. But not wanting to go home.

I spent 3 days Continue reading

Pt 3: You’re an arsehole

Posted in Fixing a broken marriage, Sex therapy with tags , , , , on March 19, 2018 by Accidental Masturbator

Her: How are you doing?
Saturday morning. I’d been up licking my wounds in the kitchen for a couple of hours by the time She came down for breakfast.
Me: Probably no better than you. Sorry.
Acknowledgement from Her.
Me: I wish I hadn’t said it. I’m worried about Continue reading

Sinful Sunday 335 – Contemplation

Posted in Not a dick pic, Sinful Sunday with tags , , on September 9, 2017 by Accidental Masturbator

Having resolved to not submit dick pics for Sinful Sunday, at least in the short term, and whilst I have several ideas for shots, what with a week’s holiday running straight into 3 solid weeks of work, finding time to do  something more creative is going to have to wait. But being on holiday presented another opportunity.

Normally I have a shower every morning.
The cottage we rented for a week had no shower, only a bath.

Sinful Sunday

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