Having marked the passing of Vivienne Westwood yesterday with someone else’s work, it felt completely contrary to her spirit to leave it at that. Although I was too young to be part of, or even truly appreciate the
The death of Vivienne Westwood has been well covered by the mainstream media this week. Having risen to a designer favoured by the rich’n’famous, her origins in punk are well documented. Perhaps inevitably though, there has been less mention in recent days of her importance to the world of fetishwear. Rebellion was at her core, … More Rubber people
Dating Claire has not been easy. Don’t get me wrong, Dear Reader, feeling comfortable in her company has been easy and, if we’ve been alone in the same house, it has been quite hard to keep our hands off each other. Just don’t assume that it’s all been plain sailing. With the seemingly interminable processes … More [DELETE]
There’s a fundamental advantage to masturbation over sex with someone else. I don’t mean there aren’t arguably greater benefits to sex with someone else – I’d far prefer to fuck than wank – but I’ll wager, Dear Reader, when it comes to cumming, it’s almost certainly easier for you to DIY. [Ed: Our phone lines … More Disconnection (2)
It’s easy to forget things during 20yrs of a sexually moribund marriage. On the up side, I’d forgotten quite how awesome, fun, fulfilling and
Three or four times now, Claire has asked Is there anything else? I can’t remember precisely what has preceded these questions, except to say that they have followed revelations about my interest in kink. • Claire knows I’m into latex and has expressed an interest in indulge my kink. [Ed: Truth be told, Claire has … More More?
Back at the beginning of November, the Sinful Sunday prompt was Noire. A lot of my Sinful Sunday contributions have been black and white, so the theme appealed to me. I even had a photo ready, taken the same time as my submission for Sinful Sunday 608 (Chairs) and featuring
Me: I have to be away from home later in the week. I could easily turn it into two nights away and we could spend one together? Claire: That would be lovely. Me: We could have a pyjama party and
For the last few days I’ve been wallowing in self loathing. OK … maybe that’s overstating things a little. Or maybe not so much? Without wanting to descend into
I generally don’t like to post twice in one day, but yesterday’s fuck-up is not entirely unrelated to this photo, and today is Sinful Sunday Prompt Day. So having taken this photo a couple of weeks ago, in anticipation of Chair Week, it seems a shame not to share. When the topic of my
Accidental Masturbator 