First contacts

You want to know how the date that Ally and I arranged just before Xmas went, don’t you, Dear Reader? And did Eva really think that kink was so important? After Ally and I agreed a time and place to meet, there was a little more banter, and

Busses

After 3 weeks registered on five O.L.D. sites, I was starring to get a little disappointed. Objectively, my disappointment was unjustified and, to a significant degree, of my own making. I had, after all, accumulated 40 Likes on my OKC profile, at least 7 on Bumble, and there had been 4 exchanges of messages of … More Busses

My preference

For the best part of 30yrs, I’ve maintained that I am mostly straight. I say mostly because, when faced with the question yeah, but if you fancied just one man, who would it be? I had an answer. In the last year or so, however, I have come to

Taking the piss

Having resolved to take a swim in the more salacious end of the O.L.D. pool, where the FWBs, swingers and one-night-standers hang out, I had to give some thought to sexual health. I’m pretty comfortable with the idea of being

Fucking fabulous

Without any reasonable justification, Dear Reader, I’m impatient. Berate me for it. I deserve it. Why? Because its barely been a week since I started taking O.L.D. seriously, and

Hold me

In the wake of the divorce, I needed to buy a new car. [Ed: It’s probably a mark of how consumed AM has been by his divorce that, whilst this post could easily have been written without mention of divorce, it wasn’t.] Not a big deal – it was always going to be part of … More Hold me

L’art pour l’art

Having unpacked the majority of the boxes after moving house, some of the last items were the pictures. I don’t have many framed pictures. Before I moved in with my snqeWife, I’d only owned my own flat for about 18 months, having previously been in shared accommodation, so other than the ubiquitous